Some of you are my friends on facebook.com, you also know I don't put a picture of myself on there! Reasons why I don't put a photo of myself on there, it really doesn't matter because it is my facebook account right! Now I'm not a big fan of facebook but, it does come in handy when talking to family and friends and making new friends.
Facebook is also a place where you can talk about your favorite shows and I love TV; I watch TV all the time. Now I don't live for TV, but if a show is on that I like I will get myself ready to watch the show!
I was on Basketball Wives page: It's a Reality show of so called friends who were either married, shacking up, or had a baby with a current or ex-basketball player. Not one of my 10 top shows but, it's in my below 100!
While watching the preview of next week show, one of the ladies Meeka Claxton called Tami Roman: Tami "HoodRat" Roman! I happen to comment on the statement which was "Tami "HoodRat" Roman sounds damn good" That's when all the ish came out!
3 perfect strangers who don't know me at all started calling me out my name and had some really ugly jokes about my photo of my doll on my facebook account! Here is the photo and some of the comments people were saying!
The Comments
Cooper @ Latarcia Sugarmama Brown,LMMFAO CHILE I WAS THINKING THE SAME DAMN THING,AND WHO THE HELL POST A DOLL ON THIER PAGE "A NAPPY HEAD ONE AT THAT"
Brown LET ME GO SEE THIS NAPPY HEADED DOLL I BEEN HEARIG ABOUT !!! LMAO
Cooper @ Latarcia Sugarmama Brown,CHILE YOU SEEN THAT SHIT LMAO
Brown: DAM WHATS UP BEADY BEAD ??????? HA HA HA HA
Here was my last statement before I left, I refuse to go down to any level that is not me! Now I may make jokes and laugh at people comments because you are that freaking immature however , I will never stoop to your level of a child like mind!
Someone told me to STFU which means "Shut The Fuck Up" and this is what I had to say!
"I love Facebook bullies! You know LATARCIA, I will not STFU but I will go about my business because in Jesus name I will walk or go to another site where I can have a conversion with people who don't make fun of people with nappy hair! Now I may not come back and see what you have to say but I will allow you to have the last word, because BULLIES like you have to have their foot on a person's neck! God Bless! I will never go down to your level"
Someone with a child like mind had this to say to me
Cooper @ Ebony Way, OH BITCH PLEASE. YOU CAME ON THIS PAGE TO PASS JUDGEMENT OF PEOPLE ON A TV SHOW YOU NEVER MET BEFORE SO HOW DARE YOU SIT THERE WITH YOUR NOME/DOLL AND SAY YOUR BEING BULLIED,IT WAS ALL GOOD UNTIL YOU BECAME THE TOPIC OF THE CONVERSATION
You are so right Ms Cooper it was all good until I said something you didn't like, now you and Ms, Brown and the followers wanted to talk about my nappy headed doll on my facebook account! Notice I keep saying my facebook account, because I can do whatever the f**k I want with it! They are still talking about me as I'm writing this post! I can't pass judgement on people (which trust me, I was not doing) but you can call people out their name, wow such child like behavior!
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Markray She coulda put a pic of Beyonce on there like sumbody did earlier
Cooper GIRL THEN I PROBALY WOULD HAVE BEEN EASY ON HER I LOVE SOME B, BUT THE DOLL CHILE PLZ--->
Markray Looked like one of them cheap ass dolls at that...
Johnson yes i must agree, what look was she going for....Pin up Barbie????
I'm could report them because what they did was cyber bullying however, they are not worth my time I even hate writing about it! What bothers me is the nappy hair comments, are you for real! I even asked Ms. Brown what if your daughter came home crying to you because someone made fun of her hair; Ms. Brown had this to say!
"Brown EBONY YOU LATE I HAVE 4 DAUGHTERS AND YES THEY HAD NAPPY HAIR .. BUT I MADE SURE WEN THEY WENT OUT NOBODY SAW THEIR NAPS .. ESPECIALLY IN PICTURES .... HA"
This is all I have to say, fighting with children will get you nowhere!
So sorry you experienced this. Sometimes it's difficult for non-doll collectors to understand our passion for dolls.
ReplyDeleteDolls are not just playthings for children. Adults enjoy them, too, for a variety of reasons.
Because dolls are inanimate representations of people, it is reasonable for them to have hair and skin tones of various textures and colors.
I hope you continue to enjoy your dolls including the "nappy"-headed ones.
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Ebony just leave at their ignorance is their bliss. Cyber trolls are something you come across here and there. You did the right thing and left it alone. Unfortunately these may be children but then again there may be an "adult" or two posting as well.
ReplyDeleteI use a doll for my FB page as well. Lord knows what they would say about my Nadja. Ignore the ignorance
ladies thank you and I am fine!
ReplyDeleteI will go back on there just to show off my girls again!
@ BDE: What annoys the hell out of me is that these are African American women with children from I see on their facebook and they talking about Nappy hair! Before you perm your hair to death (including me) we all had nappy hair! What's wrong with Nappy Hair, you hate yourself that much when talking about somebody else HAIR!
@A If I had Nadja photo up there and they said something about her,sorry to say this but the Nigger would have come out of me! NOBODY TALKS ABOUT MY GIRL NADJA!
Facebook and the ugly behavior it rewards will be the downfall of western civilization. And I'm only partially kidding.
ReplyDeleteYeah, there's a lot of self hate that comes into a black person bitching about someone having 'nappy' hair...especially if it's a freaking doll! Just remember that you can't explain complex ideas to simple minds and go about your own way.
And "cooper" looks like a man in drag. But not in a good way.
ReplyDeleteWOW! WOW! W-O-W! Can you tell I'm at a loss for words? To be honest, her comments just make me laugh. She's done herself in with such ignorance, nothing else can be said.
ReplyDeleteI'm actually transitioning from relaxed hair, I'm 7 months into my journey and I've come across some crazy comments reading blogs and surfing youtube but this one seems extra crazy to me. I can't wait to be "nappy" as this Cooper person puts it, nappy in all it's glory!
Girl, you make me want to change my facebook picture to one of my "nappy headed" dolls...and send Cooper a friends request...LOL.
Ok, so I couldn't help myself...I had to look at Mr. Cooper's page and pudgybudgie is right! (in my Austin Powers voice) "That's a man baby!" LOL
ReplyDelete@ pudgybudgie, You know I wanted to say that so bad, I just could not bring myself to do that because that is not me! But I love when you say it!
ReplyDelete@ Tracy India I was laughing too! They may have think I was sitting in front of my computer crying but, I was rolling because they sound so damn dumb! I was also thinking about going nappy too. They just inspire me more!
ReplyDeleteThat is so sad. So ignorant. Do you have to be a doll person to see how important "nappy" haired dolls are to our community? May they help some kids to love their hair and be proud of it! Sad to see people PROUD of their brainwashing.
ReplyDeleteI know how you feel! It's like being in school again!
But really folks with such terrible spelling and grammar should be below your notice! :D
Ridiculous. You know we all got your back Ebony.
ReplyDeleteWow. They'd certainly hate my collection then lolol http://www.flickr.com/photos/57959681@N06/sets/72157626364769490/with/6089764546/
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